Ann, your response is an isolated interpretation or genesis suffused with modern ideas of gender roles rather than biblical ones. Please humble yourself to see that it is not the word of God that says what you say, but an expression of an inverted modern ideology forced on to you relentlessly from childbirth.
You say “Father is warning us that women will be stripped of personhood and reduced to the biological function of producing children to maintain male supremacy if a man is followed instead of Him.”
That is complete lie and rejection of his establish order when taken in the whole council of his word. You are saying that a woman should not follow men but the Lord. Does the Lord not say himself “Wives should subordinate to their husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is head of his wife just as Christ is head of the church...” (Eph 5:22).
It is not the ruling of men that causes pain and oppression but the ruling of UNGODLY men. For to say it is the ruling of men over women is in error is to say that the ruling of Christ HIMSELF is in error as the above verse from Ephesians clearly shows. It is by Gods will that men rule over their wives, the family, and society.
I get it, there have been many terrible male leaders who HAVE oppressed and who HAVE abused, not leading with strength AND mercy as Christ does. But the answer is NOT to rebel against his established order as a results of countless bad examples. That is exactly the enemies goal, rebellion against his good order. And he will use every wound from our past to get us to do that.
Your interpretation of the JKV translation as seeming to paint the Lord as a sadistic rapist is proof that he has deceived you. He has you believing that his will as clearly defined in his word is oppressive, just like the serpents original deception of Eve! Please sister, humble yourself and see this.
When the Lord says that women’s desire will be for their husbands, the word desire is not in a sexual sense. And the phrase rule over is not in an oppressive sense. The Hebrew word is the same as is used in Genesis 4:7 when God says to Cain, “If you do what is right, will you not be accepted? But if you do not do what is right, sin is crouching at your door; IT DESIRES TO HAVE YOU, BUT YOU MUST RULE OVER IT.”
Do you see the same structure and meaning in that sentence as in Genesis 3:16? Genesis 3:16 is saying, just as in 4:7, that because of the fall, women will desire to compete with and supplant the headship of their husband, but he is to firmly and graciously rule over her justly as Christ does his church.