That, "the Son of man hath power on earth to forgive sins" (Mark 2:10) is beyond dispute as the OP has correctly documented. So why did not Jesus simply forgive them? Why was the father involved in such a request from Jesus as recorded in Luke 23:34? Let me suggest several reasons:
- Jesus asked forgiveness for his enemies as an example for us to pray for such forgiveness for our enemies, see Matt 6:14, 15, 5:44, Luke 6:28.
- It is one matter to have a sin forgiven but that does not deal with the personal hurt that a person feels when sinned against! The brutal, unjust execution of Jesus was a sin (inter alia) against God and Jesus specially asked the Father (His Son was being murdered) to forgive the personal hurt to Him, ie, The Father.
- One may assume that because Jesus was "bearing the sins of many (Isa 53:12), and that He was interceding for His tormentors, that He had already forgiven His personal hurt.
- As a fulfillment of the prophecy in Isa 53:12 -
Therefore I will allot Him a portion with the great, and He will
divide the spoils with the strong, because He has poured out His life
unto death, and He was numbered with the transgressors. Yet He bore
the sin of many and made intercession for the transgressors.
Others may be able to think of further reasons why Jesus so prayed.
APPENDIX - Sequence of Jesus sayings on the cross
According to the Cambridge commentary, the order of the Jesus "seven last words" on the cross is as follows:
"Father forgive them" ... They were the first of the seven
words from the Cross, of which three (Luke 23:34; Luke 23:43; Luke
23:46) are recorded by St Luke only, and three’(John 19:27-28; John
19:30) by St John only. The last cry also began with the word
“Father.” The seven words are
Luke 23:34. The Prayer for the Murderers.
Luke 23:43. The Promise to the Penitent.
John 19:26. The provision for the Mother.
Matthew 27:46; Mark 15:34. Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani?
John 19:28. The sole expression of human agony.
John 19:30. “It is finished.”
Luke 23:46. “Father, into Thy hands I commend My spirit.”