James says: “So confess your sins to one another and pray for one another so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great effectiveness.” James 5:16
& 1st John 1:9 says: “But if we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous, forgiving us our sins and cleansing us from all unrighteousness.” 1 John 1:9
My question is: “Why should we confess our sins to one another, especially since our sins can be embarrassing & harmful to other believers?”. {James 5:16}
To ask from another angle: If 1 John 1:9 exists as instructions to primarily confess our sins to God for forgiveness & cleansing, what’s the purpose of James 5:16? To defile the church? I’m confused.