When reading the Bible, it helps to be able to think like a Hebrew with Hebrew idioms and Hebrew history. The King James has translated the scriptures correctly in Dan. 11:37. The "desire of women" was speaking of the longing of the Hebrew women to be the mother of the Messiah. The phrase is not speaking of sexual desires.
We have to stay with the context of the scriptures. Daniel ch. 11 is a prophesy of about 400 years of events which Gabriel revealed to Daniel that would center around Jerusalem, the rebuilding of the temple in Jerusalem during troublesome times after their return from Babylon. It is part of the prophesy of the 490 years that began in Dan 9:24.
Gabriel told Daniel that the end of the desolations - destruction - of Jerusalem would be yet 490 years, and it was couched as for "thy people" and "thy holy city".
>"Seventy weeks are determined upon thy people and upon thy holy city, ..." (KJV)
"Thy people" were Daniel's people - the Hebrews / Jews. "Thy holy city" was Daniel's holy city - Jerusalem. Then keeping with the context of the 490 years, the prophesy encompasses all of Dan. chap. 10, 11, & 12. And, all of chapter 11 concerns kings, rulers and powers affecting and surrounding Jerusalem before the end of its desolation, or its destruction.
Then, Gabriel told Daniel of several kings in chap. 11 which would affect the "holy people" and the "holy city" - that is the Jews and Jerusalem.
Vs. 1 identifies the beginning point with Darius the Mede. Vs. 2 counts 3 more kings of Persia before giving information about a 4th Persian king that would rise, or come to power. This 4th Persian king precedes the king of Grecia in vs. 3, and is often identified as King Ahaseurus, or Xerxes whom Esther married; the last great wealthy king at the peak of the Persian empire who reigned over its last great moments.
Vs. 3 - 4 then speaks of Alexander the Great, the Macedonian / Greek ruler who conquered so many nations, and upon whose death his kingdom was divided into four parts to his four generals - not to his posterity.
One of these four kings becomes the king of the south in Vs. 5, and was the Ptolemaic Dynasty beginning with Ptolemy I Soter who received the rule over Egypt, Palestine, Cilicia, Petra & Cyprus. (1)
The other prominent king which picked up territory from Alexander was Seleucos I who took over Mespotamia, the Levant, Persia, and part of India. (2) This became the Seleucid Dynasty.
These two dynasties / kingdoms were south of and north of Jerusalem, which was the subject of Daniel's prophesy. The 400 years of history outlined in Dan. chap. 11 were those which would affect Jerusalem, and eventually be it's cause of destruction - the end of days of the 490 years of the desolations of Jerusalem.
From vs. 5 to 35, Dan. 11 tells of the kings of the north (the Seleucids) fighting against the kings of the south (the Ptolemys), and poor Jerusalem is stuck in the middle and gets sacked a few times as these armies march back and forth in front of the holy city.
But at vs. 36, a new king is introduced. This is determined by the context of the scriptures in vs. 37 - "the God of his fathers" with a capital "G". Therefore, the king of vs. 37 is a Jew, who ruled over the Jews in Jerusalem; one who magnifies himself above all and does not hold any regard for YHVH.
As such, this king could not have been a ruler of a pagan nation, such as Antiochus Epiphanes which many attribute to vs. 36, because Antiochus Epiphanes would not have been spoken of in this manner. The "God of his fathers" is a clear reference to YHVH, which means this king ignored the "YHVH" of his fathers. This also rules out any consideration that this king was of the Roman rulers.
Nor did this king hold any regard for the "desire of women" to be the mother of the Messiah. The focus is upon the Jews and Jerusalem, so the desire of women stays with the context, and refers to the desires of the Hebrew women.
The Hebrew women knew the prophesy of Isa 7:14 -
"Therefore the Lord himself shall give you a sign; Behold, a virgin shall conceive, and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel." (KJV)
They knew Isa. 9:6 -
"For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace." (KJV)
The Amplified Classic translation spells it out correctly.
"He shall not regard the gods of his fathers or Him [to Whom] women desire [to give birth—the Messiah] or any other god, for he shall magnify himself above all." (Dan. 11:37, AMPC).
The word "desire" from Strong's Heb. 2532 is also "delight". (3) It is the same "desire" of Hag. 2:7,
"And I will shake all nations, and the desire of all nations shall come: and I will fill this house with glory, saith the Lord of hosts." (KJV)
which was the Messiah.
This particular king in vs. 37 did not care about the Messiah who was the delight of the Hebrew women who longed to be His mother.
The KJV is correct. The tendency of reading the English translations without knowing the Hebrew background is a drawback, and prevents many from understanding the Hebrew idioms and references in the scriptures.
The word "god" in vs. 37 is used in the same way as from Psa. 82:6-7 :
"I have said, Ye are gods; and all of you are children of the most High. 7 But ye shall die like men, and fall like one of the princes." (KJV)
It meant those who ruled over the people from the temple who were to rightly represent the Law of Moses to the people on behalf of God the Father.
The king of Dan. 11:37 had no regard for YHVH, no regard for the promised Messiah - the desire of women - and no regard for the rulers, priests and princes of Jerusalem.
Dan. 11:36-45 brings the history of Jerusalem to the birth of Christ and His ministry, succeeded by Dan. 12:1.
"And at that time shall Michael stand up, the great prince which standeth for the children of thy people: ..." (KJV)
Michael of the OT was the preincarnate Christ, the prince of His people. The king of Dan 11:36-45 preceded Christ's appearance, and was a ruler over Daniel's people, dividing the land for gain, "planting the tabernacles of his palace between the seas the glorious holy mountain" of Jerusalem.
Dan. 11:36 introduces us to King Herod.
"The words, "the king," should suffice, in the light of the context, without further description, to identify Herod to those who thoughtfully read their Bibles; for Herod alone is called by that title in the Gospels, and he alone had the rank and authority of "king" in Israel in the days after the captivity, "the latter days." The text does not speak of a king, but of the king, the emphatic Hebrew article being used. This is in marked contrast with the terms of v. 40, where the original speaks of "a king of the north," and "a king of the south." (4)
Herod attempted to put to death the promised Messiah of Israel, the desire of women, the desire of the nations (Matt. 2:1-16). He also had no regard for the natural desire of women for their children when he had the infants slaughtered in his attempt to kill the infant Messiah (Matt. 2:16-18), the weeping of Rachel for her children (Jer. 31:51).
Herod honored the "god of strongholds" or fortresses (vs. 38), a god whom his fathers knew not, therefore a pagan god. He paid the Roman Caesars tribute in gold and silver and costly jewels.
".... he converted the ancient Strato's Tower into a magnificent seaport, and named it Caesarea … and … later he rebuilt Samaria, and renamed it Sebaste (Sebastos being the equivalent of Augustus). He built many other fortified cities …. The same subject is continued in verse 39, which reads: "Thus shall he do in the most strongholds with a strange god whom he shall acknowledge and increase with glory; and he shall cause them to rule over many, and shall divide the land for gain," or "parcel out the land for hire."
Here we have a reference to one of the most prominent acts of Herod's long reign, namely, his rebuilding of the temple, and his making the temple area a stronghold. He made the temple the most famous building in the world for its dimensions, its magnificence, and particularly for the size of the stones whereof it was built, to which the disciples specially directed the Lord's attention (Mark 13:1), and which Josephus says were 25 cubits long, 12 broad, and 8 thick (Ant. XV II, 3). But, in rebuilding it, Herod took care to convert it into a fortress for his own purposes, this being the "most stronghold" of the land. As a part of this plan he constructed on the north side of the temple, and overlooking it, a strong citadel which he named the Tower of Antonia …. Josephus says: "But for the Tower itself, when Herod the king of the Jews had fortified it more firmly than before, in order to secure and guard the temple…" (Ant. XV 11:4-7). " (4)
The KJV does have some errors in certain areas, but it is correct in its translation of Dan. 11:37.
1) Ptolemaic Dynasty at AncientHistory
2) The World of Alexander the Great at AncientHistory
3) "chemdah" is defined as "desire, delight". See BibleHub
4) Antiochus Epiphanes and Herod the Great, Part II: The King of Daniel 11 here