1. Question:
Rephrase: According to Matthew 7, Is our "final judgment" by God, (in the eschatological sense), contingent on how/if we judge others in our lives? Or, is Jesus stating that you can expect people to not judge you, if you don't judge them?
Context: Throughout this sermon, Jesus' is consistently speaking about judgment from the "father":
NASB, Matthew 6:1 - ... otherwise you have no reward with your Father who is in heaven.
NASB, Matthew 7:21 - “Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father who is in heaven will enter.
2. Answer - It is God's Judgment that is Rendered According to our Own:
NKJV, James 2:13 - For judgment is without mercy to the one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment.
According to Scripture, Christian's are commanded to "judge with mercy" - regardless of how they are judged. God's final judgement is contingent on how people judge each other.
A person is only "Just" before God, if they judge with mercy as Jesus advocated for their mercy - unconditionally.
NASB, Ezekiel 7:27 - According to their conduct I will deal with them, and by their judgments I will judge them. And they will know that I am the Lord.’”
Matthew 18:35 - My heavenly Father will also do the same to you, if each of you does not forgive his brother from your heart.”
The New Testament Teaches that Good deeds do not entail Reciprocity - from people:
NASB, Titus 2:6-8 - Likewise urge the young men ... to be an example of good deeds, with purity in doctrine, dignified, 8 sound in speech which is beyond reproach, so that the opponent will be put to shame, having nothing bad to say about us.
So, "judging with mercy" is neither a sufficient or even necessary condition for others to judge you with mercy.
However, one can find favor and prudence with God and man because of truth and mercy:
NASB, Proverbs 3:3-4 - Do not let kindness | mercy, (חֶ֖סֶד, Micah 7:18) and truth leave you; Bind them ... 4 So you will find favor and good repute | prudence, (שֵׂ֫כֶל) In the sight of God and man.
Merriam-Webster, Prudence: Good Judgement, Caution, Use of Reason.
3. Clarification - Seemingly Contradictory Commands:
To Judge ...
NASB, John 7:24 - Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous [equanimity] judgment.”
Or not to Judge ...
Matthew 7:1-5 NIV - “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2 For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
Important Note: The word "Righteous" - as we understand it in the religious sense today - does not appear anywhere in Hebrew or Greek texts. The word δίκαιος, (Logeion), means "Just", "Equanimity", "Lawful"; and, "δίκαιος" was understood - at that time - in this legal and moral sense - without necessarily conveying a religious idea. Every instance of "Righteous", in Biblical texts, can properly be replaced with "Just".
In other words, Jesus' commandment is:
Paraphrase, Mathew 7 - Do Not Judge with Condemnation, but Judge with equanimity (justly), with mercy, as you hope to be judged [by God].
4. Explanation - This is the Fear of God and the Beginning of Wisdom:
There is a very big difference between "Accepting People" and "Approving what they do". "Identifying a wrong" is not the same thing as "proclaiming that wrong" and then responding by injecting death into them, (by diminishing their life).
In English, we often use "Judge" in two different ways - conflating: "To pass a verdict" and also "To Condemn". In our society, we very rarely contemplate the ability to Judge with "Mercy".
If "True Justice" is "Equanimity", (balanced scales), then the one who appeals for mercy before God forfeits their right to condemn. Any other form of Judgment - would be "Unjust" - not "righteous" - and cannot fulfill Jesus' commandment.
Example: "No, I cannot be your advocate in court." According to Scripture, this judgment might be returned as, "No, I [Jesus] cannot defend you before the Father."
Scripture, in many places states that God will render judgments - according to their own judgments:
NASB, Ezekiel 7:27 - According to their conduct I will deal with them, and by their judgments I will judge them. And they will know that I am the Lord.’”
James 2:13 - For judgment will be merciless to one who has shown no mercy; mercy triumphs over judgment.
Christians are Empowered to Forgive - in view of Eternity:
Matthew 18:18 - Truly I say to you, whatever you bind on earth shall have been bound in heaven; and whatever you loose on earth shall have been loosed in heaven.
John 20:23 - If you forgive the sins of any, their sins have been forgiven them; if you retain the sins of any, they have been retained.”
Christians are Commanded to ALWAYS judge with Mercy:
NASB, Matthew 6:12 - ‘And forgive us our debts, AS we also have forgiven our debtors.
NASB, Matthew 6:14 - For if you forgive others for their transgressions, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.
NASB, Ephesians 4:32 - Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just AS God in Christ also has forgiven you.
1 Corinthians 4:5 - Therefore do not go on [a]passing judgment before [b]the time, but wait until the Lord comes who will both bring to light the things hidden in the darkness and disclose the motives of men’s hearts; and then each man’s praise will come to him from God.
2 Corinthians 5:18 - Now all these things are from God, who reconciled us to Himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation,
5. Is the Command for Unconditional Mercy "Unwise"?
Some argue that judging with unconditional mercy, (as Jesus did on the cross, See: Luke 23:34), is not "wise". Again, "Acceptance" is not "Approval". It is only "Acceptance" and "Togetherness" that strengthens people to withstand temptation and from stumbling, (Hebrews 12:12). Mercy does *not** approve* of ungodliness; rather, mercy can only happen once sin is recognized.
In the New Testament, "judgments and consequences" for sin are mentioned, (divorce, separation from the Body, 1 Corinthians 5:2, etc.). However, Jesus said that provisions like these were given only because of the hardness and stubbornness of peoples' hearts, (Matthew 19:8) - but it was never intended to be this way "from the beginning".
Wisdom is NOT always "Just": Wisdom never returns evil for evil, it always seeks to inject life - regardless. There is only one exception where Wisdom will impute death: against others who inject death into others through their condemnations.
So, "Judgment" must always be rendered with mercy: for the intent of reconciliation (2. Corinthians 5:18), and "life". Otherwise, it is wrongful condemnation. (For example: A fundamental issue of our prison systems today is that prisoners are often released with more toxicity/death than they came in with - regardless of what happened.) Yes, perhaps it might be "just" to inject death into those who may have caused death - but never wise. "Wisdom" will judge those who are contrary to God's desire for the wicked to repent, (through his kindness, Romans 2:4), and for them to have "abundant life", (Ezekiel 18:32).
Don't get me wrong, this is THE most difficult and greatest command in all of Scripture, to: "love as I have loved you"
- unconditionally, (John 13:34).